I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon. If you talk to him about it, and he cares about your relationship enough, the two of you will probably be able to find something that works for both of you. And yet I have such profound respect for his role in our community. I'm glad you both have found a way to get past the incredible forces that are working against you. Another simple and doable option is to go online; there are many LDS dating sites where you can sign up and meet new and interesting people. And a happy ChristmaChannuKwanzaKah to everyone.



I hate to say it, but I don't see this ending well. Trust me, though--you will. Her attempts to convert you will get stronger and stronger, if you make it clear to her that you will not under any circumstances convert, she'll bounce. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date.
Besides the obvious brain damage that you will be made to suffer your entire married life, there are future kids to think about. I also expected that my spouse would be temple worthy and that I would get married in the temple, which was not the case. Heavenly Father will give you guidance if you listen with an open heart and contrite spirit as always. Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised. Stick around on this sub. Patience my dear, that's what you're going to have to keep telling yourself.
It's in the Mormon DNA. You just can't imagine the heap o' hurt you're potentially setting yourself up for. Hi I am married to a doctor and I am alone most of the time. In the Garden of Eden, Eve may have introduced sin into the world, but ultimately her actions worked out for good because it allowed all of us to be born and tested in this telestial state.