It has come to my attention that there is a terrible rumor going around about men: that we're selfish in bed. Hey, I'll admit, there's not a man I know who will decline oral sex from a woman he fancies. I mean, it's a blowjob!
Keep it light to start.
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In fact, oral sex is widely known as the most reliable way to give a person with a vulva the big O. Studies consistently show that the vast majority of vulva-owners require clitoral stimulation in order to have an orgasm, and oral sex puts the clit front and center. This is just science, friends. The issue? Given the state of sex-ed in America, we're assuming you didn't hear the word "clitoris" in school. Then there's the fact that the clit often gets ignored in mainstream penetration-focused pornography. So if you're not quite sure how to eat pussy, it's not entirely your fault.
2. Use your eyes.
Let's face it: It's incredibly sexy to observe someone else experiencing sexual pleasure. When partners are truly tuned in to each other, oral sex can be just as arousing and pleasurable to give as it is to receive. But to get the most enjoyment from giving oral sex to another person, one needs to be exceptionally present during the act. If you are giving your partner oral pleasure simply as a means to an end, then you probably won't enjoy it as much.
We were curious about these oral sex myths and decided to take matters into our own hands the best way we know how — surveying a group of real men. Many of their responses were shocking. If you want more details about their reasons why, below are three questions we asked the guys about giving oral and the responses they gave. I am totally turned on when going down on a woman.