Your post could have been written by me, in August. That is why there are home teachers, friends, family members, neighborsвto provide priesthood blessings. This isn't what I expected.
It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc. What she taught is different from what the essays admit happened. Try to find out his schedule in detail. This can keep the relationship from getting too exclusive, and spending time with more people can give you a wider variety of things to do. Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church. Good luck with her, and good life to you.
Probably, not Mount Meadows level, but be prepared to have to apologize on her behalf a lot. All I can think about is the fact that his schedule means that I will have to be the one to shoulder all the parenting and household responsibilities. My family is pretty awesome in the church. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. It MAY be true that she will not marry him unless he converts. Her beliefs are innocous but ultimately a death sentence for this relationship. He has always had a tremendous caseload and often grueling call schedule.
This has been a good distraction when she's doing awkward shifts but coordinating time together can be difficult. That doesn't get better unless you humble yourself, either -- admit you might be wrong. I'm so glad we waited until now instead of jumping into it right then, because I have learned a ton and the learning curve of being with a doctor is far more steep than it is to be with someone who is not married to their job.